I have a friend who has been a pillar for me. She doesn't know it. I could go 6 months with out having contact and we pick up where we left off. She has encouraged me to take action when others were at a loss for words. With what little free time she has she has made a commitment to schedule a monthly lunch with our group of 5 friends. Just recently she spoke up for herself and has taken on a significant responsibility at work and made it clear that her Family comes first. She may not know it but the key says it all she's - FEARLESS!