I bought a necklace for my 19 year old niece, Taylor, and chose the word CREATE for her. I explained The Giving Keys' story and told her that I chose create because she's in a time in her life where she needs to create the life she was meant to live.
No more looking to the past, and living with parents fighting over custody and money issues.
It's her time to CREATE. To create is the opposite of destroying. I encouraged her to focus more on creating, and less on destroying. She loved it.