My stepson is experiencing a very difficult time. He had an accident that severely damaged his back; he had a breakdown; he separated from his wife, who has moved out of the family home with the children; and he lost his job.
He has now vacated the home and is looking for somewhere affordable to live where his children can visit and stay with him. He is deeply depressed about his situation and has difficulty imagining a positive future.
I chose the word CREATE for him as I think it symbolizes a new start and an opportunity to reflect on what he really wants to do and work toward: building a fulfilling life for himself and his boys.